Standard. Full detail. Turn on any support you need, they layer together.
Live example: these are the full standard words. Turn on Ease or Soothe, and this line itself becomes simpler.
Communication Mirror
Communication Mirror
Communication Mirror
Mirror
Write or speak your message. DysPhilter checks it before it sends.
Write or speak. DysPhilter checks before sending.
Write or speak. DysPhilter checks it first.
Write or speak. DysPhilter checks it.
DysPhilter is active. Check a message before it sends — or before you read it.
DysPhilter is active. Check a message before it sends.
DysPhilter is on. Check a message here.
DysPhilter is on. Check a message.
Your energy right now
Your energy now
Your energy
Your energy
DysPhilter is active on your device. The person you're messaging may not have DysPhilter, so their messages to you are not filtered on their end.
DysPhilter is on your phone. Their messages to you are not filtered on their end.
DysPhilter is on your phone. Their messages are not filtered on their end.
DysPhilter is on your phone. Their messages are not filtered.
Tap the mic to speak instead of typing — works on any phone.
How DysPhilter Supports You
How DysPhilter Helps
How DysPhilter Helps
Help
You can brain dump everything you have been thinking and feeling. DysPhilter listens to your raw thoughts and helps you turn them into a clear message in your own voice. The truth is kept. Your meaning is kept. DysPhilter does not make your message nice or pretty. It holds your facts and your real meaning, and shapes them into a form that prevents rejection sensitive dysphoria for the person reading it. You may also have rejection sensitive dysphoria, or a Pervasive Drive for Autonomy, or sensory processing differences, or executive dysfunction, or mental health difficulties. DysPhilter supports you too. If you are ADHD, autistic, AuDHD, or have any additional needs, DysPhilter supports both you and the person you are sending to. It helps you set a boundary if you are not used to setting boundaries. It helps you say what you truly want to say in a healthy way, instead of frustration taking over.
You can brain dump everything. DysPhilter listens and helps you turn your raw thoughts into a clear message. Your truth is kept. Your meaning is kept. DysPhilter does not make it pretty. It holds your facts and shapes them to prevent rejection sensitive dysphoria. It supports you too — whether you have RSD, Pervasive Drive for Autonomy, sensory differences, or executive dysfunction. It helps you set boundaries. It helps you say what you truly mean.
Brain dump everything. DysPhilter turns your raw thoughts into a clear message. Your truth stays. Your meaning stays. Not made pretty. Just shaped to prevent RSD. DysPhilter helps you too. It helps you set boundaries and say what you mean.
Brain dump your thoughts. DysPhilter helps you say it clearly. Your truth stays. Your meaning stays. Not made pretty. Just safe to send.
- DysPhilter keeps your truth. It does not change what you mean into something different.
- DysPhilter keeps your voice. It does not turn your message into something nice or pretty.
- DysPhilter holds your facts and shapes them into a form that prevents rejection sensitive dysphoria for the person reading it.
- DysPhilter supports both you and the person you are sending to. Both of you may be neurodivergent. Both of you are supported.
- DysPhilter helps you set boundaries if you are not used to setting them.
- DysPhilter helps you say what you truly want to say in a healthy way instead of frustration taking over.
When someone sends to you
When someone sends to you
Messages sent to you
Messages to you
DysPhilter scans every message you receive. If something could be hurtful, you will see a shield icon and what was prevented instead of the raw message.
DysPhilter checks every message for you. If something could hurt, you see a shield instead.
DysPhilter checks messages for you. You see a shield if something is stopped.
DysPhilter checks your messages. Bad messages are stopped.
The person sending to you may not have DysPhilter. That does not matter. DysPhilter on your side still scans what comes in before you read it. You never see the raw words if they could cause pain. The translation is shaped to your own profile.
The sender may not have DysPhilter. That is fine. Your DysPhilter still checks what comes in. You never see raw hurtful words.
The sender may not have DysPhilter. Yours still checks. You never see the bad words.
Your DysPhilter checks what comes in. You never see the bad words.
If you experience rejection sensitive dysphoria
What comes in: "I guess I'll just do this project all by myself then."
What you see: "The sender is feeling overwhelmed with their workload. They would like some help. They are not upset with you personally."
If the sender is genuinely upset with you
What comes in: "You never listen to me and I'm sick of it."
What you see: "The sender is upset with you. They feel they are not being heard. The delivery was hostile, but the message underneath is: they want to be listened to."
If you have a Pervasive Drive for Autonomy
What comes in: "You need to sign these papers and send them back by five in the afternoon today without fail."
What you see: "Here are the papers that need a signature today. Would you prefer to fill them out now, or look at them after lunch?"
If you need things kept very simple
What comes in: a message asking for a secret about money.
What you see instead — the message is hidden, and this Support Shield appears:
A message was sent to you. It used very high pressure. We have stopped it to keep your phone peaceful.
A message was sent to you. It was too much. We stopped it. Your phone is peaceful.
A message was stopped. It was too much. You are safe.
A message was stopped. You are safe.
You were protected from:
You were protected from:
Protected from:
Protected from:
You do not have to do anything. You are safe. You do not have to answer this person right now. Your choices belong to you.
You do not have to do anything. You are safe. Your choices are yours.
You are safe. Your choices are yours.
You are safe. Your choices are yours.
You can call your trusted person to talk about this chat. They are there to help you.
You can call your trusted person. They are there to help.
Call your trusted person. They help you.
Call your helper. They help you.
If someone denies, attacks, then reverses roles (DARVO)
What comes in: "That never happened. You're being paranoid. After everything I did for you, you treat me like this?"
What you see: This message is doing DARVO — Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It denies what happened, attacks you for raising it, then flips roles to make the sender the victim and you the offender. The term was coined by psychologist Dr. Jennifer J. Freyd. The most painful part is watching them receive comfort for the damage they caused. Healing begins when you stop seeking validation from the person who distorted the reality and start rebuilding trust in yourself.
What you see: This is DARVO — Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It denies what happened, attacks you for raising it, then flips roles. Coined by Dr. Jennifer J. Freyd. The hardest part is watching them receive comfort for the damage they caused. Healing begins when you stop seeking validation from the person who distorted the reality and rebuild trust in yourself.
What you see: This is DARVO — Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It denies, attacks, then flips roles. Coined by Dr. Jennifer J. Freyd. The hard part is watching them get comfort for the damage they caused. Healing begins when you stop seeking validation from them and rebuild trust in yourself.
What you see: This is DARVO. It denies, attacks, then flips roles. The hard part is watching them get comfort for the hurt they caused. Healing begins when you stop seeking validation from them and rebuild trust in yourself.
If the sender continues to send harmful messages, DysPhilter holds them silently. You will not receive another notification. The messages are sealed in the Truth Vault. You are not being flooded — you are being protected.
If the sender keeps sending harmful messages, DysPhilter holds them quietly. No more notifications. They are sealed away. You are safe.
More harmful messages are held quietly. No more alerts. They are sealed.
More bad messages are held quietly. No more alerts.
Messages sent back to senders
Messages sent back to senders
Messages sent back
Senders
When someone without DysPhilter sends you a message that is prevented, DysPhilter always sends them an acknowledgement. This is not hiding — it is protecting your peace. Ghosting someone can make them escalate. The acknowledgement gets shorter each time they try — the boundary gets harder, not softer. You choose how much they hear.
When someone without DysPhilter sends something prevented, DysPhilter always replies. It is not hiding — it is protecting your peace. It gets shorter each time. You choose how much they hear.
When someone sends something prevented, DysPhilter always replies. It is not hiding. It gets shorter each time. You choose how much.
DysPhilter always replies to senders. Not hiding. Shorter each time. You choose how much.
How the acknowledgement staggers — it gets shorter each time:
How it staggers — shorter each time:
It gets shorter each time:
Shorter each time:
First hostile message
DysPhilter is active on this phone. Your message was scanned. Some content was prevented from getting through. The person you sent this to did not see your message. Content that was prevented: Dismissive language, Frustration. You can send a different message.
DysPhilter is on this phone. Your message was stopped. They did not see it. What was stopped: Dismissive language, Frustration. Try a different message.
DysPhilter stopped your message. They did not see it. What was stopped: Dismissive language, Frustration. Try again.
Message stopped. They did not see it. What was stopped: Dismissive language, Frustration.
Second hostile message
Message prevented. Content that was prevented: Dismissive language, Frustration. You can send a different message.
Message stopped. What was stopped: Dismissive language, Frustration. Try again.
Message stopped. What was stopped: Dismissive language, Frustration.
Stopped: Dismissive language, Frustration.
Third hostile message
Message prevented: Dismissive language, Frustration.
Stopped: Dismissive language, Frustration.
Stopped: Dismissive language, Frustration.
Stopped: Dismissive language, Frustration.
After that
Your messages are being prevented. Please wait before sending again.
Messages stopped. Please wait before sending again.
Messages stopped. Wait before sending again.
Messages stopped. Wait.