A neutral third party holds the space for both of you. Each message is decoded through the neuro-affirming lens before it crosses — so neither person is harmed, and every point gets through. Neither of you ever sees the other's raw words.
The channel holds this as context for both of you, equally.
Does money cause pressure in this relationship, for either of you?
It helps the AI notice if money is ever used as pressure or control. You can change this later.
Two people, one held space. The AI holds the context for both of you equally. It never takes a side.
Whoever speaks, writes in their own voice. Direct, literal, passionate, half-finished — however it comes out.
You see your own reflection first. What was caught, why, and the safe alternative — only you see this. Then you choose: send the safe version across, or don't send.
Your raw words never cross. Ever. They are held in the Truth Vault. If you refuse to send, the other side sees only a shield and what was caught — never your words.
You can reach your own held words through a three-stage check. Grounded state, support person, healing journey. That is for your own content only — neither of you can ever open the other side's raw messages.
Pause for a Moment belongs to both. Either person can start it. Both get the grounding exercise. There is no hierarchy — either can end it when they are ready.